HARD INSIDE, SOFT OUTSIDE

Do you still remember my friend�s story in my post before? My friend said that it was almost impossible to change bad tradition in his working environment. If we are in such condition, there are only two possibilities; we are bit by bit influenced, or if we don�t want to, we must be the one who influence the others. Perhaps, at first my friend feels uncomfortable with the condition but then he must be adapted to it.

So, what can we do? Indeed it is hard to change a culture. It is hard to change one�s belief. But if we can�t change it, we can change ourselves. It is no need to ask somebody else to change. We don�t need to grumble. And we don�t need to judge anybody else. Let me reiterate, we just need to change ourselves.
Then, what about the others? Let them see you changed. If we are consistent with our change, gradually what we do will inspire the other to do the same. Everyone has their own virtue inside. We just need to awaken it by showing a pattern.